Spirituality

It’s your bedrock.

Spirituality is important to you – you were raised with it, it feeds your beliefs, it gives you purpose and direction.

Every day, it sets you on a solid, positive path, guards your footsteps, and offers you a moral compass by which to live.

And when life gets tough, it grounds you. It’s your rock, your aegis, your sanctuary of safety and comfort.

It may be the most important element of your life.

But it can be complicated.

Even what is good and holy can come under attack from forces that would abuse or misuse it – to lead you from the wise, the intended, pathway to something darker, unhealthy, contorted.

Earnest, devout believers face any number of distorted ideas: “praying away” difficult feelings as a means of avoiding them instead of praying for support in dealing with them directly.

They claim patience to justify persevering in an abusive situation rather than asking for strength and wisdom to end the harm and heal.

They are misusing religious scripture to control or manipulate others rather than its intended, contextual purpose.

And it can shake your foundation.

If you’ve experienced spiritual abuse, you may have experienced any one of the above and more, and it can bring on feelings of alienation, doubt, and confusion.

And it’s especially difficult when trusted spiritual advisers counsel you NOT to question or think on your own.

Or when they lead you to believe it’s okay for you to feel harm because you should “respect your elders” and “listen to your spouse/parent/authority” as “God had commanded.”

Trying to reconcile how you feel and find the truth about what your faith truly intends for you can be traumatic.

That once unbreakable spiritual connection may seem lost, and you may begin to question everything you’ve known.

It can lead to perplexing questions.

“Does my Creator me want me to be miserable?” “Why?” “How can this be part of a Divine plan?”

“Have I misplaced my trust?” “Is my whole life misguided?”

The more important your spiritual connection is to you, the lonelier you feel.

Though you long for the connection you once had, you get triggered, feel guilt, shame, and doubt.

But you are not alone. I can help.

Let’s resolve these issues together. I’ll create a safe, objective, judgment-free space where you can share your experiences without fear.

I’ll listen compassionately. I’ll hear, honor, and validate your story – the pain and the injuries that have arisen for you.

We’ll strive to understand the importance of spirituality for you and re-orient you to a healthier, happier, more satisfying connection.

We’ll begin the healing process and create the relationships you desire with your faith and those most important to you.

Dispel the darkness and doubt; see your faith – and yourself – more clearly.

Your foundation is still there, still strong as ever. But it’s also meant to make YOU stronger.

Reach out today at (929) 251-5127. Let’s find the answers to those questions, gird your foundation, and get you back on track.

Life is full of challenges, but your faith is supposed to help you face them – because you are sacred, and your life has meaning.

Let’s get you back on track and help you reconnect with your spirituality.